Vary from region to region, Russia There are three traditional wedding, North way, Central, Eastern (Siberian region). The
most popular way for the central part of the Russian-style, consists of
three basic process, namely, marriage, wedding, marriage. The
prenuptial ceremony include: matchmaking, blind date, Nace, the church
announced the farewell party, dowry, baked wedding bread, etc.; wedding
before the wedding ceremony, wedding, wedding; marriage ceremony
including married the next day ceremony, visited the new . Variety of ceremony the Russian people the importance of marriage. Look at the link, have different rituals and pay attention.
Matchmaking,
matchmaking to choose a lucky date, the people are the best matchmaking
Day is Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday, the traditional superstition that
Wednesday and Friday to marry, he should not be talking about. Some places that monthly 3,5,7,9 Day is a festive day of marriage, matchmaking, marriage is good luck these days. The 13th day is absolutely taboo, Russian folk called "ghost 13. The best time of day matchmaking for the evening. The matchmaker is generally served by the matchmaking living in older women, they widely exchanges, shrewd. But also acts as a matchmaker by the man's aunt or grandmother and married older women, which is more prevalent in rural areas. In a few rural areas, and even the man's father personally act as a matchmaker. However matchmaking must obtain parental consent before.
Go matchmaking to avoid the encounter on the road, even if the encounter of people have to bow to turn a blind eye. To
the woman's family, the matchmaker first gently press on to the door
frame, then knocked on the door to get consent before being entered the
room. In the matchmaking process, talk to the two sides must sit under the roof beams to allow media thing firmly linked. In accordance with the rules, the matchmaker quietly touches everyone sitting around the table legs conversation.
The
the traditional matchmaking prologue similar, general Thus began: "I
went to your government neither yield to the temptation to eat and
drink, also non yangkeng the mooch, but bring festive message you have
to be the word boudoir girl, I have a desire knot luan wind Kenjiro,
let us forge relatives such as her parents agreed to the marriage, will
have to shake hands with the matchmaker clap, or three times around the
table, then Zhangdeng point wax and covered with a tablecloth, put away
the bread, salt, tea, hospitality matchmaker, to agree on a blind date.
Two or three days after the blind date matchmaking blind date. Blind date the first look at the courtyard, about the man's family was by looking at the courtyard, the woman's parents. See the courtyard, the man banquet, hospitality each other. Such as the woman's parents agree that a few days after the man's parents did not get married daughter.
Blind date consists of two parts, that both men and women to meet and matchmaker negotiate terms with her parents. Each other, the parents of the young man went on. Future bride parlor wearing costumes, accompanied by a girlfriend or godmother. Sometimes accompanied by a homely old lady, in order to set off the girl's beautiful.
Beginning blind date first short prayer, and then everyone around the table three times, began to drink tea. Tea time, the male and female acquaintances. After tea, the woman's father and matchmaker to another room to discuss a dowry to the bride money. In some places, such negotiations by both sides father.
Blind date, and the girl is the protagonist, but she was silent, reserved, and for three new clothes. Sometimes you have to cope with each other's examinations. Male
parents will be asked: "girl dexterity it?" At this time, the girl
picked up a broom to sweep the floor, sometimes on the spot Performing
weaving skills to show their ingenuity, able to endure hardship. According to tradition, the young man with his father in the hall, and exchange views on the girl's steps. Since then, the girl handed the young man a cup of honey water, such as the young man gulped and said they liked the girl. Otherwise, he just lightly sipping honey, the return of the cup.
The young man said certainly after the two sides to talk about next gift. The
girl's Gifts: shirts, underwear, two pairs of trousers to the future
mother-in-law of the fabric, as well as gifts to other relatives
handkerchief. In rural areas, these gifts girl handmade in the city, bought at the store. If both parties agree to discuss Nace engagement date banquet, guests, drink the lad father brought the wine. The blind end of the ceremony to the parties and matchmaker prayer and confining the table circling.
Nace, Nace is one of the important activities of premarital, usually at each other two or three days in the woman's family. Nace also known as engagement, engagement, its procedures depending on family circumstances. The next of kin of both men and women are generally required to participate in the the Nace ceremony. Wealthy family or the door of the aristocracy often invited renowned and influential, respected participants. Nace ceremony, both parents were announced on dowry and bride price, negotiate the date and details of the wedding. The talks finished, start Nace. Both father each hand the robe hem or handkerchief and handed the other to show that they have decided to become relatives. The girl handkerchiefs or scarves to the young man, and then lit candles or oil lamps. Both parents each icon, bread and salt to give unmarried couples, said the blessing. Nace,
unmarried couples exchange engagement ring, both sides cite the glass,
put the ring people glasses, and then swap the wine glass in one gulp,
wear the ring of the other gifts. Or the two sides sit down to the ring on the table intraday exchange plate, that is the exchange of rings. Then
both parents to pay tribute to each other, the woman's father
introduced to the visitors the bride and groom, announce their
engagement. Some
places, the fiancee parents blessing, went to the threshold of around
seven bow, announced to the neighbors and friends that they have the
rest of your life and use her husband's surname. After the end of the etiquette recreational activities. In some places also popular custom alcoholism to his fiancee. In rural areas, the rich banquet to be extended a few days.
Church
to announce that, in accordance with the canons of the Russian Orthodox
Church, ready to marry the person should be written or oral report to
the parish where the priest fiancee's name, title, title, property, and
then by the priest in three recent Sunday or holiday, the end of the
Mass followers announced the name of getting married. The purpose of this church premarital inquiries in order to avoid the confusion of marriage. Many factors affect marriage, like a family relationship, relatives, parents do not agree and so on. Unmarried
men and women is not in the same parish, each application is made to
the host parish, then specialized marriage certificate issued by the
priest. Addition to stating the age, family situation, but also indicate that people get married without any obstacles. According
to these documents, and pre-marital investigation, the priest in the
the wedding eve or prenuptial queries issued on the same day, this is a
special certificate of the Russian Orthodox Church.
Farewell party was only approved after more than Five off, killing six "review, marriage, the girl can hold a farewell party. This ceremony was very popular in the countryside. The girl girlfriend partner rent a house, baked cookies to entertain the boys there. The young man does not come empty-handed, generally come with a variety of sweets, candy, fruits celebrate. The party must have a well-decorated a small pine tree, as a symbol of the fiancee beautiful. After the party, my fiance the small pine tree to take home. In
some places, the girls want to personally woven white embroidered towel
as a lad of pure knot beautiful symbol of the party it draped over his
body. Then donated by the girl's best girlfriend fiance, and told him to love her, always friendly living. Lad Tibetan embroidery towel into her arms and bowed. During the evening, the young people in the organ accompaniment, rejoice.
Dowry
before marriage dowry is generally delivered the main by women,
matchmaker or woman aunt to take the lead, which most grand aunt the
lead. Sometimes men also participate in the rituals, but generally hired to move heavy coachman. The wealthy family show and not only, dowry, usually five cars loaded. First
car icons and samovar cookware edge the children holding decorated with
ribbon candy and silk-wrapped tea; second car is painted gold silver
salt bottle in your hands by the godparents; third car bedding ; fourth car carpet furniture; hold the line of the fifth car from the matchmaker and aunt, the hands holding a live turkey.
The welcome dowry general fiance's mother, sister or married. Fiance's mother gave the cloth leader, began an inventory of the gifts. At this point, the matchmaker responsible for paving the way for new people to beds. Make the bed deliberately put cooked eggs or wooden eggs lay down, to wish the new Early Takako. Eggs in bedding delegation of three days, until the new consummated removed after the fourth day of the bride. If wooden eggs, the bride want to wrap it in a row wedding wear underwear. If cooked eggs, broken feed the chickens. In rural areas, the bride price is not so much, a car is enough. However, many rural recreation activities, such as: foreclosure dowry holding hen dance, said boards.
Baked the wedding breads, baked wedding bread Another activity before marriage. The wedding bread usually have two, that is the great circle of bread and comb bread. Both breads are circular, but the baked methods, and materials are different. Round
bread made with fermented rye or wheat, in southern Russia more
prevalent; comb bread, no salt baked, sometimes put shelled eggs there,
emblazoned beheaded, this bread popular in the northern part of the
wedding. Toast mainly by women the main roast, men auxiliary. Bread baked with dancing, singing Bread song. Customs
in urban or affluent people do not bake wedding bread, required on the
wedding feast of bread is the produced honey bread from the grocery
store.
Before the wedding ceremony, the preparation of the above have done so much, finally ushered in the wedding. Morning,
the groom to the bride by the matchmaker to send jewelry tray, placed
inside the veil, blur, wedding candles, engagement ring, comb, perfume,
needles, pins, etc.. After receiving the jewelry tray, the bride's mother and aunt comb bride last head. The bride wore a dress, wearing a red rose to put on the veil and shawl, the little brother of the bride for her shoes. In
order to avoid the brides evil and sick, but also the Department of a
bunch of their own braided belt, or a piece of fabric in the skirt hem
seam, clothes put a thimble Sahua the Catalpa fruit, and leaves to the
shoe.
Worn by the uncle or maternal relatives of the groom's responsibility and a coin on the right foot shoes. The
man before the wedding to be held in a special ceremony of the five
copies of tableware, parent, groom, matchmaker, bridesmaids and five
participants. About
one hour before the departure of the wedding team, gracefully five
servings of cutlery on the table, and the blessings of the parents to
the groom, everyone around the table circling, and then into a light
meal. The groom and welcome happen to the team on the road "highway", "buy banquet, this is a traditional New Year customs. The fleet is decorated with flowers, but also hanging bunches bell in order to let the sound of exorcism. To the woman's family, the groom to the bride price to pay his father-in-law, father-in-law of the bride to the groom. The bride braids matchmaker unlock said she has entered the ranks of the woman. Then put on hijab, go to a church wedding.
The wedding, the marriage ceremony was held in the church according to the traditional. In addition to the invited guests, participants nearby residents. Road convoys to the church speckled flowers, red carpet and the steps leading from the front of the church by Taiwan. In order to avoid new in evil, by the best man to clear the way. The whole process, new tight embrace, so that the faithful, life together. Wedding
prayer by the priest began, and singing hymns, toast to the newlyweds,
the bride and groom with three drink a glass of wine. Give a new offer wedding crown, new mutual Wanshou exchange engagement ring.
Wedding,
the groom father holding the statue, the mother holding the bread and
salt ceremony, the crowd a couple both bowed to their parents, turn Kiss
parents three times, and then returned home. The people spilled grain, hops, petals, coins, they continue to wish them a happy, prosperous.
Seated,
my mother-in-law or a matchmaker furnaces fork pick open the veil of
the bride, and at the same time greetings, gift scarves, belts or money
and goods. The wedding in this atmosphere.
Wedding
bread decorated with the moon, sun, pigeon, trees, etc., is the staple
food in the wedding the dishes generally Jidao practice of fish, meat,
chicken. The traditional dish is stewed chicken. Folklore
chicken and egg, pregnant with the magic of the male sterile female
students, and therefore, this is the first dish newcomers must taste. Banquet near the end, the bride should bread cut into small pieces, and then followed by a toast to the guests. Wine and champagne, Sam Sun wine. Sam Sun wine mixture to pour a little of the wine, honey, home brew beer. Drinking after they started dancing. Dance late into the night, with the newcomers, both human bridal, wedding ends.
Marriage ceremony, the next morning, the groomsmen bathhouse burned warm, waiting for the newlyweds bath. They went into the bathroom with the music. The groomsmen also responsible to send vodka or beer to groom for the groom while washing while drinking. Bathing in some places is the couple divided into the bath, in some places, bathing. After the bath, they both rode in the forest or village ride in, or to the parents-in-home tasting Chunbing.
On the third day after the wedding, we have to test the bride. On this day, the bride To eighteen craft dedicated to the family, such as sweeping, stove Health, pancakes, Ganmian, Article. The
meantime, the presence of people continue to give the bride a problem,
such as hay, pour cold water on the garbage to the floor or put into the
chimney, take a look at the bride how to deal with these challenges, in
order to test whether she is a hard-working, capable Xianshu wife.