壹旦雙方確立了戀愛關系,男方要送給女方訂婚戒指並舉行儀式。這種習俗遍及整個英國。結婚或定婚戒指是許多民族的傳統習俗,英格蘭人在教堂裏舉行婚禮儀式時,新郎給新娘戴戒指是不可缺少的壹項重要內容。人們甚至認為不戴戒指的婚姻是無效的。當神父詢問壹對新人是否願意做對方的妻子或丈夫、能否相互尊重、白頭偕老後,新郎給新娘的無名指上戴上壹枚戒指。它象征著丈夫對妻子的純真愛情,同時妻子也表示接受並忠實於這種愛情。
戴戒指的習俗可以追溯到古代埃及、中國,它不僅作為壹種信物也是壹種裝飾品。婚姻戒指最初並不鑲嵌鉆石、翡翠以及紅藍寶石等飾物,純潔的圓形象征著由婚姻聯袂在壹起的兩個人的團圓。在壹些民族中象征著壹種魔力,保佑夫婦幸福長壽,同時,施予者表示對接受者的信任,接受者表示對施予者的忠誠。
金戒指象征愛情的純真,銀戒指意味情感溫柔。英國人同西方各國壹樣,定婚戒指是金制的而不鑲嵌任何寶石,結婚戒指應加裝飾物,至於戒指的質量則根據個人的經濟條件不同而不同。定婚、結婚戒指可戴在同壹無名指上,也可以由結婚戒指取代定婚戒指。
英國在16世紀時,結婚戒指的內側經常刻是家族的圖案或箴言,諸如"上帝使我成為某某的妻子,"某位主教的妻子的戒指上刻上壹只手、壹顆心、壹頂主教冠和壹個骷髏,銘文是:"前三個我賜予妳,第四個使我超脫。"今天戒指上的銘文大多只刻上新郎和新娘名字的開頭字母。
英國人結婚要穿禮服;新娘身著白衫、白裙、頭戴白色花環,還要罩上長長的白紗,手持白色花束。總之,英國人崇尚白色,它象征愛情純潔、吉祥如意。而戴頭紗的習俗可以追溯到公元前10世紀,當時兩河流域就已盛行女子戴頭紗。在古希臘,舉行結婚儀式時不僅新娘要戴亞麻或毛織品的頭紗,而且壹對新人都要戴上花冠。到了羅馬時代,不同宗教信仰的人要戴不同顏色的頭紗以示區別。中世紀以後,宮廷貴族之中出現了用珍珠裝飾的花冠。爾後,發展成為白色頭紗,並且尺碼日益延長,並遍及歐洲各地。
壹旦舉行完婚,新郎新娘從教堂裏出來的時候,人們要向新人祝賀,這種祝賀不是親吻、擁抱和握手,而是向他們撒五彩繽紛的紙屑。撒紙屑的習俗起源於撒麥粒。1491年英國國王亨利七世攜王後到布裏斯托爾旅行。旅行途中,被壹位面包師的妻子看到,於是她從窗子裏向他們撒麥粒,並高呼:"歡迎妳們,陛下!祝妳們幸福、長壽。"這成為壹段佳話,到16世紀時,這壹習俗已廣為流傳,人們向新郎、新娘撒麥粒,有時還染各種顏色。麥粒象征著豐收和生活富裕,同時也祝賀新婚夫婦幸福長壽,子孫滿堂。
度蜜月也是英國各地青年結婚的重要內容之壹。他們把積蓄下來的錢用於旅遊,而結婚後去旅遊便稱作度蜜月。這原是古代的習俗,在新婚之時壹定要飲用壹種用蜂蜜特制的飲料,用來象征家庭美滿、愛情甜蜜和生活幸福。而這種飲料從結婚開始要喝30天,因此就把新婚第壹個月稱作蜜月了。
在英國對於結婚紀念日十分重視,每年都要慶祝並有不同的稱謂。第壹年是紙婚,第二年是棉婚,第三年為皮革婚,第四年為毅婚,第五年稱木婚,第六年稱鐵婚,第七年叫銅婚,第八年叫陶器婚,第九年為柳婚,第十年是錫婚,以後是鋼婚、繞仁婚、花邊婚、象牙婚、水晶婚。從第十五年以後,每五年各有壹個稱謂,依次為搪瓷婚、銀婚(第二十五年是個大典)、珠婚、珊瑚婚、紅寶石婚、藍寶石婚、金婚(五十年是第二大典)、翡翠婚、鉆石婚。這最後壹個是第三大慶典,但很少有人能夠慶祝這個慶典。
England's Wedding rich, from their honeymoon to marry him according to their own traditional way. In northern England York City marry him rather peculiar way, inherit a legacy of the ancient folk, girls mature, the need to get married, they wear tight clothes of different colors to indicate male. Different colors, different meaning that precisely the same and traffic lights. Green said: "Come! I am willing to love, to pursue bold! "Amber said:" The opportunity is in the affirmative, if I of the Italian still has a chance of success. "Red said:" I do not want to present minute, I will not pursue. "Courageous man will root The color of each other's clothes, according to their own choice to pursue bold, not misconduct will be taken on the label.
Once the two sides established a dating relationship, the woman gave the man to engagement rings and held a ceremony. Such practices throughout the whole of the UK. The rings are married or engaged to the traditions of many peoples, England held in the church wedding ceremony, the bride and groom to wear a ring is indispensable one important element. Even people not wearing the rings that marriage is invalid. When a priest asked whether the couple would be willing to do each other's wives or husbands, whether mutual respect and remain live after the bride and groom to wear a ring on my ring finger. It symbolizes a husband to his wife of pure love, while his wife also accepted and be faithful to this love.
The custom of wearing the ring can be traced back to ancient Egypt, China, it not only as a chop is a decoration. Marriage is not the first ring inlaid diamonds, emeralds, sapphires and red accessories, as a symbol of pure circular jointly together by the marriage of two people together. In some peoples as a symbol of a magical, bless the couple a long and happy life, while giving recipients the right to express confidence that the recipients are subject to loyalty.
The rings symbolize the pure love, silver rings that emotional tenderness. With Western countries like Britain, engagement rings is part of the system without any mosaic stones, wedding rings should be installed accessories, the quality of the rings are based on individual economic conditions are different. Engagement, wedding rings can wear the same ring, wedding ring can be replaced engaged by the ring.
Britain in the 16th century, wedding rings engraved on the inside is often pictorial or family Proverbs, such as "God made me a certain wife," Bishop's wife, a certain ring inscribed on one hand, one heart, one bishop and a skeleton champion, is the inscription: "Before I give you three, I detached the fourth. "Today the inscription rings are only inscribed the names of the bride and groom initials.
Married to British costume; The bride dressed in white, football, wearing a white garlands, but also cast a long white, carrying white flowers. In short, the British advocating white symbolizes purity of love, acting. The first yarn wearing the custom can be traced back to the 10th century BC, when women wearing Your brothers were first popular yarn. In ancient Greece, held not only marriage ceremony bride to wear the first flax yarn or fabric, and must wear a new Corolla. By Roman times, people of different religious beliefs to wear a different color yarn to show the first distinction. Since the Middle Ages, the nobles of the court appeared Corolla decorated with pearls. Afterward, become the first white yarn, and increasing the size of the extension, and throughout Europe.
Held once married, the bride and groom from the church by the time, people would like to congratulate the couple, not on kissing and hugging and shaking hands, but they scattered to the colorful confetti. Debris scattered on the origin of the custom Samai tablets. 1491 Britain's King Henry VII portability queen travel to Bristol. Travel the way, was a baker's wife that she yard from the window to Samai tablets, and shouted: "Welcome to you, Your Majesty! I wish you happiness and longevity. "This has become a legendary, 16 century, the practice has been widely circulated, people to groom new Mother Samai tablets, sometimes with various colors. Granule a symbol of good harvest and an affluent life, but also congratulate the newlyweds a long and happy life, quietly.
Honeymoon is married British youth around one of the important contents. They put down money for savings tourism, and tourism after marriage to be known as the honeymoon. This was originally an ancient custom, when the wedding must drink a special drink with honey, to symbolize the family happy, love sweet and happy life. This marriage began drinking beverages from 30 days, put the wedding of the month as a honeymoon.
In Britain attaches great importance to the wedding anniversary, celebrated every year and with different title. Paper is the first year of marriage, the second marriage is cotton, leather for the third year of marriage, Yi married for the fourth year, the fifth year that wooden marriage, said Rail sixth year of marriage, copper is the seventh year of marriage, pottery is the eighth year of marriage, Liu married for the ninth year, is the tenth year Tin, is the future of marriage, around-marriage, marriage lace, as teeth marriage, crystal marriage. After the 15th, have a five-year term, followed by enamel married Heroes (Diershiwunian a ceremony), beads of marriage, marital coral, ruby marriage, sapphire marriage, marriage (50 years is the second ceremony), jade marriage, marriage diamonds. This last one is the third largest celebration, but few people can celebrate the celebrations.